My order

Occasionally I get a burst and I let myself go. Today, for example, I have knocked down all my toys, those that usually hang from several chains on the walls of my little homemade dungeon.

My bitch knows I want them arranged in a very specific way, not only for aesthetics, but for my comfort. But this weekend she was doing general cleaning and I found everything changed.

Going to find a whip, a paddle, a flogger... and lose half an hour finding where everything is?

I welcome cleaning, but she knows I love my order and everything seemed to have been placed in a hurry. So, when she returns from her errands, will find she'll not only have to cook.

Will she have to pick up everything and cook with a spreader bar on her ankles? ;)

Proud

A few days ago, somebody asked me if I'm proud of myself. My self-analysis lasted only a few seconds and my answer was an overwhelming 'yes'.

During the course of the afternoon I went back to meditate my answer. Pondered my mistakes and accomplishments by a not so shallow balance of me, including those times when my decisions were not the best. I considered the value of come to light publicly, showing my face and my inner on a blog, in social networks, on several websites ... and of course, adding everything you don't know about me, my private life.

I'm not perfect, but I feel good with myself and that's what matters to me.

My mind was working in the background as that evening of laughter and confidences passed. When we were saying goodbye, my smile broadened and, to the surprise of my accompanying, I went on that question that had made me hours earlier.

Yes, I am proud of myself. I could save tremendous obstacles that would sunk someone weaker, I managed to make my life as I want to live it, I'm not the best nor the worst, although I am not mediocre, I own slaves that serve me and friends as the person with whom I was talking, people of whom I am proud, people I appreciate and make me feel appreciated.

I'm not a paragon of virtue, my flaws are not a few, but the final result of my deliberations is still that 'yes' resounding supported by the fact of being a happy and sure of myself woman (and not everyone can say this) ;)

No tricks

I notice you like the pictures I upload, both here and in social networks. The pictures tell the story of a life, are memories of lived moments, attitudes, places, people...

And I can hardly pose for a picture. If they are taken out on the fly, without having to wait for the shot in a certain position, so good, but if I have to put faces and pretend a situation, just getting angry with the photographer.

Probably this is the reason that I like the results of my pics, because they are real situations at specific times. And of course, it's great that you also like them.

I have to add that I enjoy being recognized internationally (and not just for the photos). Since the popular phrase says: nobody is a prophet in his own land.

But I don't want to be a prophet of anything, nor intend to "convert" anyone to my cause. He who desires to serve me, know how to reach me because, just like in the pictures, I don't like things forced or faked.

Never mind the malicious reviews, I will continue being myself :)

Asymmetric harmony

Yesterday I could not attend Domina Libertad FemDom party and I am so sorry, because I always have a great time, but something came up and there are important things that come before leisure.

And yesterday there was also leisure for me, even FemDom (could not live without it), Fetish (my latex clothes are ready) and an intense session of a few very enjoyable hours. But FemDom does not mean constant harmony, let's be realistic.

I even had time to contain my anger during my conversations in public with one of my pooches. Good thing I have is that once I say what I have to say, I stay relaxed. Unless he contradicts me, of course.

And speaking generally, there are things taken for granted, but (and this brings me to my post of the day before yesterday) there are always edges to polish. Tailor-made slavery, taking the parts they like and reject those that involve an effort, doesn't exist :)

It's great to wear a necklace of property, isn't it? But that collar means much more than being under the protection of the owner and enjoy maddening sessions.

If I have to be repeating the same thing over and over again during a training and doubts persist even knowing me thoroughly, if my words are questioned until the audacity, I apply a punishment. But when my patience is depleted, just pose more radical solutions.

In general terms I have a good relationship and connection with the slave, actually I was not talking about him right now, but we're at that stage where I want to change some of his behavior patterns at points that displease me. Don't want a robot, but I want a slave :)

Power and control

Do you know that feeling that, even though everything seems in order, there is something wrong or that fades without knowing what it is yet, but the alarms start shooting within?

I hate that feeling. I like clear and diaphanous things and when something is fuzzy, I put pocker face until everything is defined.

This applies to almost anything: a comment, a friend, a slave...

I'm sure someone will already have taken the hint. I usually go leaving tracks when I'm upset and, normally, the blame of my discomfort, however short he be, finishes for taking headlong into what is coming. So I give him a range in which he can rectify, because sometimes the mistake is not voluntary. But if the error persists and I see no purpose of amendment, my discomfort will be solved one way or another.

It's not all laughs, prizes and pleasure. In each training efforts should be made individually and impose punishment when necessary.

Someone is trying to redeem his mistakes these days. Hope he gets and uses the opportunity I gave. Sometimes it is not easy to make a radical decision, but when the decision is taken, there is no turning back ;)

Updating

These days are being busy in many ways. Between updating my website with the banners that are coming, send mine, listings in directories, my daily activities and daily blog entries... I think I need holidays :D

Not complaining, I love all the little things that make my world. I think I am privileged for many reasons and I am grateful for all of them, although sometimes it does not seem for my character.

And it is not a fairy tale, also impose punishments and lash
out my cruelty where and when I consider it necessary. But, although I rarely really get angry, when I make a decision no turning back (some will take the hint).

I have also updated the website tab Serve Me, I was missing some small details. Anyway I'm sure I'll keep tweaking things at times there, I always do. But even though the text is clear and explicit enough for even the slowest (what a diplomatic I am sometimes), I'm sure many will continue trying to beat around the bush.

A great FemDom Lady told me yesterday in a social network that penis can not read, but it happens that sometimes she is also too optimistic. I think it's a good summary, I feel totally identified ;)

I feel so... Cruel

These days I've seen a lot of creativity on the social networks. Precious photos of Christmas performances with needles to skin, pretty sissies posing wrapped in Christmas lights and even a genital torture as a tree with baubles, tinsel and lights (only was missing an urethral dipstick that held the star of the cup).

Have been a very hectic and fast days. And so my year has started with a lot of energy, with a few kinks and looking forward to many more.

2014 just started and, although many do not understand the pleasure of this practice, I want a new consensual blackmail, for example, almost two months since I have no a little worm up against the ropes oozing adrenaline :D

I rejected some proposals in that sense these past months, but now is the perfect time to make you sweat and push pins to some lucky man having the courage to submit to me in that way.

And it's not a soft way precisely because he puts his life in my hands, that is, absolute control. And I love that. The sensations are potentiated in a sublime way. But for this he must have lots of courage, not everybody is good to, and I don't accept the first one that appears.

You know, all who have told me about it lately, send your proposals again and I'll see if anyone deserves the privilege of enjoying my cruelty ;)

Blink

Behaviour modification, pet training, chastity and keyholding, humiliation, psychological sadism, cock and ball torture, spanking, tease and denial, trampling, worship, control, micromanagement, feminization, consensual blackmail with contract, interrogation, abduction, enslavement, tears, discipline, hoods, remote control devices, Financial Domination, manipulation, mind fucking, ignore you, Teamviewer, corner time, cum taxes, ruined orgasms, punishment, collar...

I could go on, but I have a question: are these the activities of a prostitute? Because if so, considering that I reject anyone who does not interest me, then yes, I'm a prostitute :)

It's the old story, there are who is poisoned to see that some of us have the privilege to do what we like and we really enjoy it.

Why so much averse? Moreover, if I really were a prostitute happy to prostitute myself, where's the problem? A whore is not a serial killer. Wallowing in such rage can not be good.

You know what? I don't mind this, honestly, I've only used all those short of mind to write my post today, lol.

Action/reaction

I don't like to give public performances, not even raise my voice to correct a behavior (privately is different), but this weekend I had to give a slap to one of my slaves in the street.

He was really winning it, and after a deep breath and just check that there were not much people around, I didn't hesitate anymore.

The result of my action was instantaneous: he looked down and thanked my correction immediately.

I love jokes, laughter and trust, but I do not consent they lose sight of their place. If I rejected a petition, the answer will be negative for more they insist and as everything has a limit, my patience was not going to be less.

A leather gloved hand works miracles, provided that the hand belongs to the Mistress's and the recipient of the caress a surrendered dog.

The harmony has returned to his relationship with me, it is what we both wanted, although he forgot for a moment. A small correction, a redemption by a fulfilled punishment and return to normal.

Not much time he is with me, but I like how fast he learns and his willingness to be to my liking. There will be other faults, of course, but for now we understand each other.

A training never ends and requires a lot of energy and dedication on both sides, but is not it great fun the way? ;)

Excuse me Lady, do you have anything phallic?

Today I'll talk about a very attractive book, albeit briefly, 'cause the author send it to me and it takes a few days to receive it.

This is the photo, "Excuse me lady, do you have anything phallic?", by matango.

Already the title promises, but it also includes a series of paintings, the artist's own creations, so from afar, I find very attractive.

I recommend his blog, Ara vull ser el teu gos, where you can find out all the details, even the way to get the book if, like me, you do not live near Barcelona.

In the blog of matango you will find photos of the book, the work of the artist and the wonderful Dómina Zara, iconic woman to which I have taken the liberty to link here (I'm a big fan of both, her work and her person and here I leave an affectionate hug if she reads me at some point).

The book has a very affordable price, do not be rats, then you buy expensive accessories online to play: D

I'll wait to get my copy and read it to give my opinion though, so I've seen and read so far, I'm looking forward it arrives. I encourage you to do the same ;)

A different offer

I am working on finding a submissive willing to submit and surrender to a D/s couple. The applicant must live in Madrid or, failing that, scroll when required.

This couple of which I speak are very serious and have very clear what they want, but it seems not easy to find the true submissive that suits their desires.

This blog is not about contacts, much less, however I will be an active part in the matter of which I speak, and that somehow I will be a tutor of that submissive helping with his training.

He has years of real experience (with female submissives) and is straight and she is novice in the art of Domination. I appreciate both very much, hence my support for them. They are great people, I assure you that the chosen will be in good hands.

It so happens that they live out of Madrid, so real contact with the servant would be once a month, but with control and daily contact through other means.

They do not want a 24/7 slave (read well), and it would not be mine, but of them, because I will collaborate only in the beginning.

My friends want to build a long lasting relationship with their future submissive. Whoever is interested in the proposal can contact me at my email and I will give more details of this.

It is a fantastic opportunity for all who desire a real D/s relationship, though not the usual Mistress/slave, but Master/Mistress/slave. However, now do not come to make me feel dizzy asking me to help you all with your searches, that this is something very punctual that I want to do for two friends ;)

Punishment and training

The issue of punishment is very personal, each one impose corrective and penalties her way or the way that she considers most appropriate.

I personally do not like to punish, it means a continued and conscious lack of the slave and that is something that bothers me because although it may consist of some kind of provocation, represents to me a lack of respect.

For a minor offense you can apply a corrective, but when the lack is serious can not go unanswered. And of course, if the error still persists, take more drastic measures.

I resort to punishment when absolutely necessary, but do not enjoy it for what I said. I do not usually punish without reason, I think there must be a specific reason, unless I feel playful and "punish" for the pleasure of it, although I know that in these cases the slave will do such a thing because I feel like.

Neither apply or impose punishments "in hot". If I'm upset I prefer to let things cool down and, even allowing a time (time that the slave will continue waiting for my decision), the punishment will not go unpunished. Thus the lesson is usually higher than with immediate punishment and not meditated.

I do not like threats, or punishment or I do not, but playing with threats dampens the effect of what I want to achieve.

And, needless to say, once the punishment has been the issue is settled. Not good for either party to insist on a fault that has already been paid because grudges and insecurities can arise that eventually may undermine the relationship.

I like punishments involving emotional effort for the slave and which involves so he knows at all times that he does because he must, not only because I've ordered. But there are so many ways to punish as we can come, to each is applied the more it costs, otherwise it would not be a punishment and would reoffend without fear of consequences.

Emotional sadism

Yesterday I spoke of physical restraints: bondage, kinbaku, shibari ... But there are also those other unseen ties, imposing inside.

I've never hidden that I am sadistic emotional as well as physical, and I can use corrective and psychological punishment as a learning method of the slave (or just for my own pleasure, not everything translates into punishment).

But I'm not only sadistic, I'm sadistic and Dominant, that is, I do not just enjoy sadomasochism but Domination/submission is a very important part in my life (not to say it is the principal). I can even go a step further and declare that I don't like the pure masochist (his personality is manipulative and does not stop lead constantly to get that share of pain he wants). Prefer the submissive not necessarily masochist, he surrenders his pain and his ​​pleasure. Do not forget that the pain threshold is teachable and I find a surrender infinitely more rewarding than a constant demand from the cravings from which must be submitted to my will.

With psychological dressage obtained strong and lasting ties. And I'm not talking about brainwashing, then everything just misrepresented and misunderstood. The psychological sadism engage not to make robots or cancel personalities, Ladies and gentlemen, emotional sadism means enjoying manipulating inside the subject and still enjoying his suffering, this manipulation can be focused down to develop the affective and the esteem that sometimes come to me so damaged.

As sadistic I infringe pain, as Dominant I am responsable of who surrender to me, working in his mind not only to suit my desires, but also for personal growth to be satisfactory to both. Quid pro quo.

Tinkering

I can understand, and in fact I enjoy, watching the adventures and balances that some make to cope with their double life of exemplary husband and father and CruelDama's slave.

I allow to evolve with some leeway because there are areas where I do not get: work and family. But it's fun to check occasionally experiencing anxiety because they can not have all the time to be at my feet and fulfill their tasks without affecting (or at least that they are hidden) or their public life and, of course, to their relationship with me.

And sometimes it is difficult to combine the two, although grant licenses often because I have more slaves to take care of. But what I do not consent are folds.

A slave, my slave, should not hide anything, much less lie, because although it may "sneak" something at some point, the truth will come to light sooner or later and that's where I take drastic measures or shelve directly. Nor am silly but sometimes game to let me to see how far a tangle of intrigue.

I keep watching a mouse specifically, the feline claw come when I feel like  (and least he expect it) ;)

Musing

I don't like making decisions "in hot" because I have a lot of character and I know I can do some damage if I'm angry. Also, if I make a decision no turning back, take it to the end.

Similarly, I have enough sense to refuse to have a session if something upsets me. A session is a very serious thing to not have full control of the situation. And I include alcohol intake, thing I can do without and I'm not a habitual drinker, no drugs, of which I waive absolutely always.

If something bothers me round I prefer to let it cool down and meditate before doing things hastily. I do not speak the dinner menu, of course, but things that can mean significant and radical changes.

Of course, if once weighed and pondered the subject matter came to the conclusion that I have to cut to the chase, or when I'll unblinking implement that decision and assume until the end.

Am I tough? Maybe, but sure of what I want too.

Mistresses ethics

The falsity exists both in real life and in the virtual. But I can get that occasional smiles and laughter.

There is a kind of ethics among Mistresses about hunt an owned submissive (or test) by another Lady. I think some of the most basic and logical and I've always respected.

But not all behave the same way, because although in social networks boast of it, in the shadows trying to be engaged with other parts. I can assure you that mine are much sought after and often dodge nonsense.

I am very possessive, mine is mine, but I enjoy watching the feints of some and rejects others. Let the critters frolicking, smile and see the evolution, but of course, all tired and there comes a time when I have to intervene.

You can put a smile on my face, but you know who's you play.

A few have left terrified and others are not worth a second of my attention. But nicks and threatened to publish details of because I have never been silly and even the worst clowns deserves a mention.

Greetings, dear :)

male and female slaves

By now the blog you know I have both male and female slaves and the differences between them are important (in addition to the anatomical and biological).

The purpose of all, regardless of gender, is serving and, thereby bridging the personal satisfaction of submission.

But there are notable features that set them apart. In very broad terms I can name a few. The submissive / slave female requires a more emotional and intense feelings about, it means more that way in the relationship. Male slaves are more 'hard' and put before the Mistress is sadistic, with ability to command and feminine, while females seek honesty, responsibility and intelligence.

The submissive man is perhaps more fetishistic visual and women and more instinctive. Psychic structures are different but, although the triggers are not the same, the goal and purpose of both is the same: to be submitted.

Whatever the primary stimuli, submission is the ultimate (gender and even sexual orientation aside).

A warning

I've talked before about the dire consequences of pride and arrogance in a slave. It's not easy when you bend it has never had to do it for real (the occasional pantomime humility not count).

Think completely out of the class is allowed to question the decisions of his Owner, let alone who dares to go leaving trails of criticism and provocation. There are times when you are allowed a free talk, where you can provide feedback (although the Mistress reserves the final say), but the slave will present what is his site at all times.

There are slaves in their everyday life (work, family) are used to having control and find it difficult to assume that, once handed over power to his Mistress, although  they are dominant with the others, he has to change the chip with Her. The Mistress is not going to take the relationship like you want to take and things will not be like you want them to be. You have accepted these conditions and you will abide.

If I say that a table is white, although my slave sees it green, but he has allowed his opinion on the color of the table, the table will be white from now and will refer to it as' the table white '.

I just believe in my decisions and when to apply a punishment or corrective. I reserve the exemplary punishment to absolutely intolerable situations. But also there, so it's best to think before barking.

You guessed, this post has addressed :)

Live FemDom

There is no manual to be the perfect submissive, slave nor Mistress. I have never driven so many mousy pamphlets that you can find on the net about how it should be everyone.

Let's cut the crap. Each is as individual and FemDom live as he pleases. There is no a university with a diploma attesting to the mastery of anyone. The know-how gives the experience and the experiences of each and every one will stay with that choice.

The first step is to know oneself and from there develop the role (if any).

Who is entitled to assert that a particular practice or those who enjoy this practice FemDom do? Where are the parameters that define what is acceptable and what is not?

I meet many keyboard judges engaged discredit people and things that will never understand. Today was not my case ( Weird, eh?),  was not me who has been pilloried, but I've noticed the hint because I live my life as I please, not three or four pontificate "aware "I have to live.

I abide by no others rules, I live with mine. And yes I live my life, I do not see how others live.

Consensual kidnapping

Another such recurring fantasies that has many variations as restrictions, place of captivity, interrogation, torture, forced labor, etc..

With certain practices have to be very careful, because although it was agreed to advance, it is necessary to agree on a space of time in which the person knows to be being kidnapped, otherwise, if you do not know that is part of the "game" could react negative way and even get to have psychological problems. Not to mention the consequences to Mistress.

Demands a great deal of planning, just like consensual rape. The slave agrees to the practice, but do not know exactly when, where or how it will take place.

It is one of the great fantasies, full of possibilities and excitement, but not everyone is prepared to cope.

Ready to have Stockholm syndrome? :)