A 'see you soon'

The Oasis Of Sado, with the 24/7 celebration last night, we took a vacation during the summer season and will come again to provide parties and events in September.

Thanks to all attendees, friends (who are now family), all we have known during these months, the good vibes that have been and are among all and many wonderful moments we have spent together.

Soon we'll meet again (August goes by very quickly) and we'll be back to enjoy those nights so of our, doing all those things we love: living FemDom and BDSM ;)

Happy BDSM Intenational Day!

Today is the day of BDSM international celebration and there are parties and events throughout the globe.

It is the day we celebrate our alternative sexuality and our alternative way to live and enjoy our lives.

I wish you all a wonderful day and I hope to see many of you at the party organized by The Oasis Of Sado on Taboo room in Madrid, 19 Moreno Nieto Street.

We will be receiving friends and new incorporations from 21:00 h. and enjoying the event, since it is the last of the summer season for us, as we take holiday until September.

See you tonight!

Awakening

My slaves laugh because I always say "I don't know what to write today in the blog" and I end up always solving that detail somehow.

But it's completely true. Some days I can hardly find a topic because I think I have written about virtually everything, or I start with something concrete just to jump into something else.

And today's post will be a little weird, because last night I went out with one of my pooches and honestly, I do not feel like thinking today what I will tell you, lol.

My bitch ​​brings me another coffee and I love being pampered and cared for. Like now, I have not asked and guess I need an extra dose of caffeine :)

And isn't this the perfect way of life? Each one in our place, some serving and others being served, everybody happy.

There is nothing better than to find those beings who complement us and to develop our nature the way and up to where we want to.

The session last night was fun. I will be uploading some photos, leave this for now with my slave jacket, it's so large that it could be a dress for me (a big dog) :D

Choosing

When we're passionate about something, we investigate, we explore, we learn about all aspects of the subject may have. Gradually we will increasing place in our lives and if it's something that fills us, we engage actively.

And when that "something" is FemDom and BDSM, possibilities are endless.

We chose practices we like and if we discover that we have it inside, installed it in our lives. We can move away temporarily by personal, but always come back to that "something" that, once tasted, never forget.

Everyone chooses where to get or where you want to be led. Some enjoy it occasionally, others live full time, but precisely that's the matter, to enjoy and savor the way we choose.

My choice is obvious. Since I wake up my activities are related in one way or another with FemDom. But that does not mean I'm better than those who live it when they can.

We criticize those who are not like us or do things differently and we forget very quickly that nobody is forced to anything.

No matter if your fetish is blood, high heels or financial slavery, that a spanking session drives you crazy or do not enjoy pain at all and you do it only to please your Mistress, that you do not want to live outside of this lifestyle or you lean out occasionally.

We're all in the same big family ;)

Landing in reality

Not all, but many of those who claim to want to surrender completely, and even live in 24/7, do not know what they say.

It is very good to fantasize, imagine what it would be one thing or another, but a slave not only have to be ready for it, but you have to really feel it (and not just think about it in these times of horny).

There are hard times in which it is not possible to postpone a task and take a break if the Owner want something to be abided immediately, nor you will have your time to your will, since it will be hers, you can not drink a beer watching the soccer match if she wants to go shopping or a relaxing foot massage, your sexual needs will be brought under her control and neither attention will be paid whenever you want, but when she wants.

It is not a fairy tale where all your dreams of being used come true, is the reality where maybe some of your fantasies will be materialized.

And it is not enough to want to serve a Lady, but give up many of your habits to become a property, park your ego prioritizing her wants and needs and learn to live in the background. Was exactly this what you thought? :D

You propose me 24/7 without ever meet me in person, without I know you, do you think that's coherent? And even knowing me, some came to buy furniture and appliances for an alleged home he would live with me because I was the woman of his life (disappearing from map as I put the cards face up during a dinner).

Meditate on if what you really desire is total slavery or just be a Mistress's submissive, you'll avoid wasting time and waste hers. Before barking, hear what she wants from you, I already have a 24/7 slave.

24/7 relationships

I live 24/7 with my slave and, before accepting her, lived five years with another male slave. Before the latter had others and already would cost me live differently. Even if I go a few days away, I take some of mine, either three days or twenty.

When a relationship is consolidated, regardless of the type of relationship that is, try to spend as much time together as possible.

I am happy with my stable, I have what I want, but there is always one with privilege to serve me at home living with me. Did I say "privilege"? Perhaps it is more accurate to describe it as "torture", because my character is hard and there are times when I turn them crazy, lol.

Some people do not believe in a 24/7, considered impossible, but I do not agree, in fact I live it for years. And I'm not alone, I know different forms of 24/7, from the impersonal to the more emotional, but I think that in this kind of relationship so intense and narrow there are always mutual affection (I could not live with someone who I don't appreciate, for more impositions, demands, penalties and remedies imposed daily).

The 24/7 slave enjoys continued contact with his Mistress and bend over backwards to get everything to her liking. The Mistress enjoys the comfort of domestic service as desired, with the addition that the server can be molded at will, with countless details that add sauce to the life of both, the availability of full-time servant for what she wants .

And if the Mistress is so playful and unpredictable like me, there will be no time to get bored, I assure you :D