For me...

Intensity is part of my life, of our lives, isn't it?

I understand that situations of surrender are magnified and those we lead D/s relationships are exalted. Although, honestly, I live it without so much mysticism and much more naturally.

And that doesn't mean I'm tired of everything. At all. I keep excited with many small things that fill me.

I guess my personality has a lot to do with it. I can't imagine myself telling a submissive romantic stupidities in public. I'm not this way. If I want something, I leave clues and, if that something is not going to be for me, I set my goals elsewhere.

I can seem cold, but the truth is that I'm not (at least not always); what is between my slaves and I belong to our private lives.

I don't need to be greeted with taglines in a chat or that those who are mine spend their lives listing my virtues on social networks.

For me, being Dominant is not just to listen/reading words of praise for the simple fact of bringing a nick in capital letters, fulfilling the fantasies of others (though sometimes, having coincidences, it's unavoidable) or taking for granted that others have the duty to pay homage.

Could we call it "living in the real world"? ;)

Broadmindedness

There are many complaints about how BDSM is being distorting by attitudes and behaviors of people who start.

Well, I can say I'm old school and I like protocol, for example, but I don't agree in condemning those who do things in a different way from mine.

How quickly we forget that we too were novices once! Or that we don't all need to do the same things...

I admit that I am very picky about my slaves, but that's the difference, I am picky with mine, what the rest of the world do is not my problem.

It would be good to recall that the purpose of all is to enjoy and to be happy in our way. Is that Dominatrix-X does things that you would never do? Well, probably Dominatrix-X really enjoys doing all those things you criticize. There are no dogmas of faith and each does or does not do what each one want.

There will always be newbies, besides haters and wannabies. But not only in BDSM.

I like to live in this world, with all its diversity. I'm tolerant, and my friends are not limited to those who think exactly like me or those that do the same things.

First of all, I like people who dare to be.

Friendship and fun

Last night we attended a great party with good friends and good atmosphere. But there was one detail I missed because of ignorance of the home rules, so the pics I uploaded this morning have been removed.

But you all know that there are many other scenes and a thousand different times, so you'll can see them ;) 

I leave a different image of a previous event.

Last night pics

I don't know where to start, lol. I laughed a lot at the meeting yesterday, plus there were some games, as it could not be otherwise. This afternoon I disappear until Sunday, because visits with whom I love to lose myself all weekend are coming.

I leave here some pictures from last night.

Thursday without Taboos

It's Thursday and as announced a few days ago, this afternoon we have an event at Taboo pub, where everyone can play, talk, laugh and have a drink.

We start at 7pm. Wear as fetish as you want or just black clothes, it's always a good choice, although it will not be a strict code meeting.

It will be our second event in the pub Taboo, as we have received many requests to do it again during the week and afternoon schedule, so wish granted... See you there!

Newbie with fears, experienced wanting to play, inveterate shy or a completely extroverted?

You are all welcome to another party/meeting with The Oasis Of Sado.

Late summer

How has September started! It was an amazing weekend and it's only the beginning. The next one will probably attend another party and the following I will have visit, so we'll go to have some fun somewhere else.

Seems that BDSM in Madrid is in full swing and it's fantastic. So glad to be back from vacation this way :D

But not all are parties and events, although I have no complaints about my day to day, it's exactly as I like.

My mind is restless and always concocts new ways to enjoy, I love put face and voice to those of you I know online and die of laughter in good company, so The Oasis Of Sado is already plotting new meetings and soon I'll tell the news.

Today I'll be a little serious and solve some important things. The end of summer is coming, but I think this one will be a very special autumn ;)

Last night...

What I can say about last night? I think everyone had a wonderful time.

Great atmosphere, new and old friends, re-encounters with people I appreciate and plenty of fun including the original performance of Marqués de Zas and Nefer.

It was obvious that all we really wanted to party, because no one was indifferent to everything that happened. There were visits from Barcelona and even Australia, but, faithful to my habit not to disclose all, I comment as usual: if you want to know what happens at our events, come and see :)

There are pictures, but I have not yet received all and we need to make the selection, so for the moment I advance these ;)

Saturday Night Party

Busy with the preparations for the party in the dungeon. I can't wait tomorrow night arrives!

What I find curious is that, with the announcement that we will not do parties every weekend, I saw a sad face on those that never come, those who complain that there are no events and, when there are, arises them a funeral, a disease or something inescapable. Always.

Don't suffer, community (at least not all), tomorrow we will be in the dungeon and there will be all the fun that participants are willing to enjoy, as parties are made ​​among all we go.

Want to be a slut serving a Lady, an object of torture, an executor arm or just have a drink watching the performance? You choose.

There should always be room for improvisation, I like the organization, but not everything gridded.

Don't stay wandering and waiting for someone to write the script of your life, come to the dungeon to start it for yourself;)

Setting dates

Yesterday I announced the BDSM party scheduled for September 6th in Madrid. I hope you all have the same desire to have fun that we have. But today, after a series of questions you made me, I'll clarify something.

No, The Oasis Of Sado will not have parties every weekend as we have done so far. We'll make one or two events a month in the dungeon and maybe another somewhere else, so stay tuned for the dates we will announce and make your reservations, 'cause you could get to the dungeon and find it closed.

For us every event is different and really fun, but also exhausting, it not only means reaching out and take whips, but there is a whole organization behind.

And we love it! But we should not overwhelm the supply of events and there is growing throughout the city. Moreover, in this way we will meet with you not only in our parties, but also in others.

The time to wear again wonderful skirts, fabulous corsets, amazing heels, beautiful gloves, latex, leather, vinyl... or just black clothes approaches. The important thing is to enjoy our meetings the way that everyone want.

The purpose is to have fun and I'll be advertising the next parties of The Oasis Of Sado right here as we finalized details ;)

New BDSM event

I keep trying to solve on my website some subjects that resist me. I count on the help of a friend, so hopefully in a few days all is set and ready to continue on my own from there. But I will inform you as soon as the changes are made.

Moreover, since we've been the whole month holiday and we are rested and relaxed, The Oasis Of Sado will provide a new private BDSM party. It will be Saturday, September 6, in the Dungeon of the Kings, in Madrid. We will have a wonderful performance and all the fun attendees are willing.

Look at the BDSM Events section of this blog, request information and make bookings in the mail that you will find there.

It will be a perfect night for reencounters, to tell us our stuff, play and make new friends. Wear your fetish clothing (or black clothing), bring your favorite toys, your friends and all your willingness to have fun.

Mark the date on the calendar, it will be a special night ;)

Grievances

Yesterday I told a story and, although I know many more, yesterday wounded some other susceptibility. Not talking about anyone in particular, but hey, if someone takes the hint, might be because someone feels identified.

And yes, talked about a MegaMaster, though there are much to say in all roles and trends, besides megamasochists and megasadists that, at the sight of a drop of blood, they have to go out to take air.

It was not a criticism of what each one is, but these kind of people dedicated to swagger and try to discredit others, even those that do what they themselves did a few months ago (and even those who know what they do and what they say), to gain a foothold boasting of experience, only parroting what read from others and probably never have come out from behind the screen.

And it's no a crime to stay in the virtual BDSM. I have a very dear friend who does not want to pass to real in her Domination. But she is not a pretentious, she doesn't boast of anything and she is a charming Lady.

Nor was a criticism of the way in which each one started on this, because internet is a great means of spreading our wonderful world and many people have come to know the BDSM hereby.

Anyway, one day I will tell you another story, there are so many ... :)

Once upon a time...

One day, someone looking for chat rooms to give a little spice to his boring daily life, find others talking about something called BDSM.

At first he was a little scared at the mention of sadomasochism (there are so extrange people on the internet...), but something manages to catch his attention, he is attracted to "test" a little those forbidden honeys completely anonymously, with a simple nick not even registered, or a thousand other different nicks with which he can snoop without his identity is compromised.

Observes users, but he is fascinated by a series of rules and behaviors that, those who seem most knowledgeable, respect and even strictly require others.

His thoughts fly and genitals respond amazingly to the possibility of the forbidden, but does not dare more than the odd private exchange with other curious wankers and will not be repeated after the timely ejaculation, although sometimes some are clumsy enough and has to resort to solitary masturbation after a failed private.

But a whole new world has opened his eyes and decides to investigate. What is my role? Do I have a role? When informed that the initial capital letter is indicative of the Dominant role, tries to login with all his nick in lowercase to see what happens.

He likes others to have the initiative, but realizes that using the initial capital letter, they receive him with more education. And so he goes testing until he invents his character with a number of details because, since it is now an expert, he played with class and will get overwhelmed all those nerds new arrive not knowing what a Dominant is, what have believed?

And thus a virtual MegaMaster is born, who will defend to the hilt his Dominant nature, but who will have to turn off the computer when his little wife send him to bed, who will cry for the corners because he spent two hours trying to get hold of a submissive and although was willing to give her his collar, she disappeared, who will crawl in Dominas privates when the opportunity arises and, when he returns from his temporary separation from his playground, will return as a learned who should be pay homage.

And red bunting ... :)

A 'see you soon'

The Oasis Of Sado, with the 24/7 celebration last night, we took a vacation during the summer season and will come again to provide parties and events in September.

Thanks to all attendees, friends (who are now family), all we have known during these months, the good vibes that have been and are among all and many wonderful moments we have spent together.

Soon we'll meet again (August goes by very quickly) and we'll be back to enjoy those nights so of our, doing all those things we love: living FemDom and BDSM ;)

Happy BDSM Intenational Day!

Today is the day of BDSM international celebration and there are parties and events throughout the globe.

It is the day we celebrate our alternative sexuality and our alternative way to live and enjoy our lives.

I wish you all a wonderful day and I hope to see many of you at the party organized by The Oasis Of Sado on Taboo room in Madrid, 19 Moreno Nieto Street.

We will be receiving friends and new incorporations from 21:00 h. and enjoying the event, since it is the last of the summer season for us, as we take holiday until September.

See you tonight!