Mistress Cruel is back! 😈

Yes, I've been missing from the public and virtual scene for a few years, although that does not mean that I have parked FemDom. Absolutely!.

Sometimes is necessary to distance yourself a little. And I did it in this time, living FemDom in a more private way with my slaves, which are the ones that are really worth it.

You probably noticed that I have changed my nicknames on my social media, it is no longer CruelDama, but FemDom Cruel or Cruel FemDom. It's not that I'm no longer a Lady (Dama), it's that I wanted to reinvent myself in some way and do other things. Not that I've stopped being Cruel, and who warns...

The crueldama.com website no longer exists either. I've let it expire because ... basically because I felt like it, which is the best reason in the world, right?

But now I bring good news. I am working on a new FemDom website for FREE! and it's already up an running: femdomcruel.com. Yes, you read correctly. A FemDom website where you can watch videos for free and I will love you to visit it. Of course, you will see that it has advertising over there, and the reason is maintenance. A web page does not stand alone. It is not like this blog, for example, which has free domain and hosting and does not involve any outlay.

And there will be many more news. I am updating videos of those that we like, don't we, my little bitches?, I hope to have time soon to share there more of those things that I know you will like. I'm not telling you more for now because there are projects I have in mind; You will see them little by little.

 

 

Where has Cruel Dama been?

Cruel Dama has not been. Mistress Cruel Dama IS !.

My social networks explode with private messages interested in me. I thank you very much for those expressions of affection (really, it is great to have you and knowing you are there), but you must understand that it's completely impossible for me to answer, since there are a lot of messages that have been accumulating in this time.

So I answer you right here: I am wonderful, a little older and maybe a little thinner, but I am still the same one.

FemDom Cruel

Save the name: femdomcruel.com, because I look forward to your visits and hope I eventually will create something worthwhile for the entire FemDom community. Will you accompany me?

 

 Will Mistress Cruel keep writing a FemDom blog?

Definitely yes. Those of you who have accompanied me over the years know that I love writing and will do it again. Although it will not be daily, as I did before, but I will return to the blog.

My idea is to include it on the FemDom Cruel website, but there is still a lot to do, so I will update here from time to time.

 

Mistress Cruel

 

 

Being me

Some things are not worth a second of my attention, so I simply ignore them.

I refuse to argue with a wall, as I prefer to use my energy on more satisfying things.

I do not consider myself a rebel, because I don't need to rebel, I just live my life doing what I want, no matter who likes it.

No need to be "accepted" by society, as I see many complain about, since I not only do not feel marginalized, but live perfectly integrated into it. Obscurantism is something that I still can not see here although certain clandestinity is a plus to enjoy much more of that excitement so ours.

To be the woman I am has not been a matter of days. Nor a few months. I have not even stopped evolving.

I'm used to be attacked by occasional beings of those so brave that they always do it anonymously. But to them, to these paragons of virtue (this is clearly sarcasm), I dedicate them the first phrase of this post.

I decide

The type of relationships that each Domme establishes with her slaves is very personal, but placing limits to give an image facing the public is not very coherent, as we lose wonderful experiences and endless possibilities in our personal development and in our life general.

I will not deny myself the pleasure of feeling what I want and how I want to stick to crippling and constrained parameters to satisfy others because it is what is expected of me, because I am the one who dominates, who decides and who shows and lives the way I please.

You can not live in a constant pose, it would be extremely exhausting. And false.

It's fun to "pretend to be", but when you really "are", need not to prove it, you just "are" without forcing anything in order to others can see that you are.

I am in favor of impersonal D/s relationships, but also of affective D/s relationships. Now, I decide how I show my affection and to whom :)

Live and let live

Enjoying friends and acquaintances of all roles and trends doesn't mean a tarnishing (as some purists seem to think), but quite the opposite, because it enriches your life and expands your worldview.

Each of us is as it is and does, feel and live what we prefer.

Practicing respect for others is something that defines us as people. Criticizing and belittling other ways of living only leads to isolation and self-limitations.

We can agree with the views of neighbour or think completely opposite way, we can agree or tastes can differ completely. But it's great implement such so called "open mind" (and that so much conspicuous by its absence so often).

These paragraphs are not going to change anyone, obviously, but maybe they make think a little to whom emit and continue to emit lamentable judgments and accusations about anything they don't understand :)

So it goes

I admit that, in certain circles, I can be considered popular. But I keep surprising when people say it's an honor for them to meet me, especially when the object of my admiration is the one who says it and it's me who has that honor.

Not that I minusvalore myself. Not at all. I know my worth perfectly. But perhaps I have not lost that humility (as contradictory as it sounds in a Dominant) of my beginnings, when everything was new and the simple fact of attending an event was cause for nerves.

I'm not the type who know everything and dedicate the world a sneer. Quite the contrary. I still have many illusions and eager to continue enjoying all the good I find in my way.

I like to do many things, live countless adventures, visit places, meet people, laugh heartily, dominate mercilessly, try new things...

And that's what I do. Living my life enjoying it intensely, feeling honored to meet great people, stomping and, at the same time, preserving humility and illusions as usual. And I'll keep doing it, even with the whole rage my haters feel :D

No therapies

I try to dodge the self-destructive, self-pitying or melodramatic people, whatever their role, that there is everything in this life.

Life gives us plenty of options for us to be what we want to be. Yes, provided we have the courage to fight for it.

I have no patience for whining and wailing for things that can be changed with a little effort. But I respect that some people enjoy their personal dramas and wallow in them, it is their choice and, consciously or unconsciously, are comfortable in that dynamic.

I like positive people, who truly enjoy their lives, their big and small achievements, those who know how to find the good side even in the worst situations.

If a submissive surrenders to a crippling depression, what is he going to give me?; if he has a self-destructive behavior, why would he need me if he can do the job by himself ?; and who wants someone who only brings tragedies?

I'm not the therapist who helps overcome complex and frustrations, it's not what being Dominant and sadistic means ;)

Pleased

I'm flattered by so many wonderful messages I receive from all around the world letting me know that you read and follow me.

I'm so glad you like the things I share here, because it motivates me to continue doing so whenever I can.

And I not only receive messages, as there are also gifts and gift cards, both anonymously through my Amazon wishlists as in my PayPal account.

My bitch says I look like an excited little girl every time a packet arrives for me and that one of these days he will record me when opening a box, lol.

I get excited both with a new pair of boots as with an income from who can only afford $10 because they all come with the affection of the sender (and sometimes very much vice, it must be said) :D

In the same way that I could not enjoy my sadism if there were not beings willing to suffer it, this blog would be meaningless without all ye who enter to read it.

There are days when I find it really hard, sometimes due to time constraints and others because, after so many entries, it is not easy to find a topic to be developed without repeating something already written.

Either way, I sincerely appreciate your messages (although I can not answer them all) and, of course, those great details that you know I enjoy :)