When I decide to test a new submissive, there are a number of steps to overcome.
It's the time to answer questions openly, to ask him others, to have long conversations and, if all goes well, start testing some disciplines because his reactions will tell me much more than his words.
But even if I think of him, I will not live eye on him, since it is he who has to show his desire to please me and to become mine. The same way I will not stop being myself at any time or give in to possible attempts of manipulation, which does not mean I don't allow initiatives or proposals, but I who have the final say on any matter that arises.
I don't offer Domination on demand, although I can play with his preferences and use them at my convenience, but he must be very clear about who leads this relationship.
It may be that his limits (both those he knows as those he doesn't, that will also appear although the submissive is not aware of them) prevent me from doing my will, or even he wants to experience things that I do not and, in that case, the relationship will not have much future.
There are many variables to contemplate, if only I quote some, but nobody said it was easy and experience has taught me that nothing is eternal, but that does not stop me from enjoying what I have while I have it.
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