Most submissives who contact us seeks instant satisfaction. In fact, although I don't know the exact numbers, the percentage of people who arrive to FemDom and BDSM looking for sex sites on the internet is incredibly high.
There is nothing wrong with entering porn sites (unless you're under control and have no such permits :D). The sex industry keeps moving masses every minute.
But, although FemDom is for many of us an alternative lifestyle in which sex has a lot to do, either forcing, manipulating, denying it, strengthening it, playing with the desire or as each one wants to live it, it's not just sex.
Nor it's a purely aesthetic matter. I am very fetishist, but do not sleep corseted and in high heels ;)
Whether I'm practicing a genital torture, an especially hard spanking or imposing a chastity device, for example, I enjoy it much more if the recipient of my whims does so in the conviction of being surrendered to me and not just 'cause he's sexually aroused because I use him from time to time.
An ejaculation, an orgasm, are great, but if there's nothing else, everything ends when climax is reached.
It took a long time on my journey through sissyhood, but now i've come to understand that any orgam of mine is completely inconsequential. Since a chastity device is in place when i serve, my only choices are to cum like a gurl or not at all. There is no choice but to serve.
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